5 ways to deal with fomo.

fomo means fear of missing out and this is a thing that almost all teenagers go through.And yes i went through that phase of it too. Believe me when i say this its not worth it. FoMo almost ruined and it ruins so many kids . So what u r missing on things right now , u can catch something up else instead .

if u ever feel left out and just ask yourself ,”is it worth it?” and if the answer is still yes , maybe you SHOULD do it , maybe u wont regret it. Maybe u will but its all a part of growing up and nobody will remember it after a year what u did and what u didn’t especially You.

as promised in the title here is how to deal with FoMo in 5 steps :

i)Stay away from social media.

social media is not real life and we all know it as we fake things too but we forget it while we see other people on the internet. have u ever ordered something and it tasted shit but when the other people see the picture of the food ,they might get hungry because of that but YOU know it tasted shit. Its the same with everything on the internet. Social Media is FAKE and we all know it and still pretend to not.

ii)engage yourself in something productive

if u do something productive instead of fun, trust me u will be proud of yourself . it will not be a fun memory but that will help u for sure.

iii) Is it worth it tho? ask yourself.

just look in the mirror and ask yourself,”is it worth it tho?”. You will find the best advice from yourself.

iv)spend time with your loved ones(family)

after yourself no one will help you more than your family and i am not talking about blood family , i am talking the people who come in your mind when u think of yourself after 25 years and they are still there.

v) focus on yourself

take a bath, give yourself a massage , read a book, watch a movie, make some good dish for yourself . u will never feel left out as you are actually the one doing things for yourself.

i know these are not steps that are so workable but i do these when i feel left out and its the worst feeling. These help me and i hope these help you too.

books were my bestfrnds?!

i just watched perks of being a wallflower and realised how much i used to love reading books. its not the same now , earlier a few years ago i wanted a library of my own and now i dont even remember what was the last time i read a book. i was so into stories that whenever, my new English course book came , i used to read all the stories in it , i was not allowed to go to the library or issue a book from my school until i was in 6th grade. i remember my sister issuing a book because they were forced to and i used to read them even though they were wack. that interest of doing so left since i grew up ,and i dont know why i just think maybe its because i am a grown up now or maybe i just didnt get the resources i wanted. i never had a library in town that i could visit , my school had a library but we could only issue some particular books they told us to. my parents never bought me books, i guess they never knew that was one of the things i was interested in. I sometimes wish i had a teacher like Bill in the movie who would give me good novels , which i would read but i never had good teachers like that. i dont have the money to buy books every now and then like that , i dont have a library and now even school is closed. i tried to search good books from my cousin’s old closet , either those books were boring or i had read them. music is doing what books used to do to me , i used to have various kinds of imaginations. i used to read the books at night to sleep ,that is exchanged with phones. haha .

i hope that when i grow up i have a library like belle in beauty and the beast. remember in bojack horseman when diane called it “belleroom

i wish to have a belleroom or even a closet or a small rack or even a table for my favourite novels . i would settle for anything. i have been doing that my small but entire life.

i just hope i dont lose the curiosity of doing so.

what’s the deal with the gen z?

GEN Z whenever you hear this word , what comes on your mind? instagram,filters,woke,protest,twitter,young,stupid and just kids.

gen z is more than just social media

gen z is basically a generation of people born from 1996 to 2015 , but its more than that.They are supposed to be these kids who doesn’t understand what it feels like to be the 90s kids , and oh boy 90s kids hate gen z , they think they are just kids and will never understand what it was before. its true we will never and its for good that we dont.

we are those kids who stick to their phones 24/7 but i dont think thats true , we r more than that , millenials were different and we are too , we are more woke , we arent homophobic, transphobic,racist , we understand other people’ s feeling more and we protest for our rights but deep down we are broken and we need attention, validation and want to be loved. but everybody just thinks we are stupid kids and maybe they are right.

the importance of 1 like

imagine u go on a page and that blog has only 1 like ,you would probably skip it , imagine u go on instagram and see that the post has 1 like , u would probably laugh ,YOU KNOW i would too because likes matter but the difference between instagram and here is that i know a lot of people there , i have an adequate amount of followers and likes.but here i dont know anyone and i have zero followers and if that is constant i would probably quit writing here but today when posted a shitty content and it got like from a person , i was so HAPPY , i know its stupid because its only one like but idk it was different, i felt like i need to write more and i need to do this stuff ,even tho that person didn’t even read that post or liked it by mistake , it motivated me, so here we learn lol we should appreciate small things itty bitty ones too and we shoudl appreciate people when we see then doing something even not that great because that would or could maybe change their life concept.